What Is Magic?

Magic is simply using the unseen to shape the seen.

In Ritual, you use your will to manifest our desires. There are many ways to raise magical energy & focus your will: Sex Magic is just one of them. A lot of [in person] Sex Magic is done in dyads or groups. Solo Sex Magic is a powerful tool, one that you don’t hear about as often. Solo Sex Magic done in a group creates an even more powerful pool of energy for the individual spellcaster to pull from.

What Is This ritual?

What do you have to let go of to have the erotic life you want? What stories are you holding onto that tell you can’t? What beliefs do you have to jettison to be the person you want to be? White Supremacy, Capitalism, Ableism often force us to place a value upon our bodies that does not align with the value Spirit gives. The ways that White Supremacy shapes many many of our Cultural, Familial, and Religious traditions to instill a sense of fear & shame about our bodies & its potential pleasures means that divesting from White Supremacy will be one of the foundational

The full moon itself is a pause before the waning—becoming smaller. Using this time to focus on expelling those things that no longer serve us allows our will to be strengthened by the moon’s natural forces.

Each ritual is limited to 15 folx.

What happens in the Ritual?

Rituals do not run strictly in “mundane time”, but here is the basic structure

• Land Acknowledgement

• Ancestor Invocation

• Blessing

• Introductions

• Break

• Energy Build through breath & self-touch

• Focused Energy Beam

• Vision Journey

• Close

The camera will be on for first 4 parts of the ritual, and will then be shut off after Introductions,

When Do The RItuals Happen?

2023 Full Moon Rituals 5:30pm - 7:30pm PST:

Wednesday, April 5
Saturday, June 3
Tuesday, August 1
Saturday, October 28

The Ache Di* for the each ritual is $33.33.

You do not have to have any experience with rituals or sex magic. You do have to believe that magic exists, and that you have the power to shape the world to your liking.

*The easiest translation for Ache Di would be “registration fee”. It’s also a completely inaccurate one.

Since this will be a small group ritual (limited to 15), and we’ll be in an intimate circle (all online, but still intimate), I’d like to have a “vibe check” with you to make sure this group is a good fit.

My Experience

I did my very first solo sex magic ritual in 1997 or 1998 & it was wildly successful.

My background in magick goes back to my early teen years of calling myself a witch and being one of the only 2 girls in my playgroup who could get the Ouija Board pointer to move. I got into Dianic Witchcraft when I came out as a dyke in 1988, but that soon felt too White for me. It was around that time that I got my hands on a copy of Jambalaya by Luisah Teish & it spoke to me on a very foundational level. For many years after I would do a modified version of the house-cleaning ritual outlined in the book (I still do).

A couple of decades later I found myself through a series of “coincidences” in the Ifa Temple headed by Luisah Teish, and named as a child of Yemaya. I’m also really clear that my work mostly fall’s into Oshun’s realm & I call on her at the beginning of my sessions & classes.

In 2016 I led New Moon Money Pouring rituals in my house for several months. In 2018, I led new moon & full moon rituals on Alameda Beach in CA. Currently I have a group of friends that I do New Moon Money Pouring with online.

My goal is to have a life where I spend the New Moon & Full Moon in ritual space. I also seek to create a community of qtipoc who want to dive deep into the magical power of pleasure to design the lives we desire & deserve.