What Is Magic?

Magic is simply using the unseen to shape the seen.

In Ritual, you use your will to manifest our desires. There are many ways to raise magical energy & focus your will: Sex Magic is just one of them. A lot of [in person] Sex Magic is done in dyads or groups. Solo Sex Magic is a powerful tool, one that you don’t hear about as often. Solo Sex Magic done in a group creates an even more powerful pool of energy for the individual spellcaster to pull from.

That was my original intention behind these rituals: to bring qtipoc folx together to create a powerful energy pool we could all contribute to and pull from for our individual spellcasting. The New Moon is a perfect time for casting spells of Attraction or Abundance.

However it seemed that the majority of the attendees of the first ritual were more interested in using this energy to propel them on their own journeys to heal their relationship with their body, genitals, and/or sexuality. Because so much of our wounding around our body & our pleasures is created by society, specifically by the depictions of our bodies as “othered” in White Supremacy & Colonization, coming together with other qtipoc, where we are the norm and not The Other, creates a primal sacred space where we re/connect with our inherent Divinity, with the all the ways in which our body as it is is Right.

Whether you are looking for a boost for a specific spell, or to re/member the inherent sacredness and beauty of our flesh in all its shades, sizes, and abilities; welcome to our circle SoulSib.

What happens in the Ritual?

Rituals do not run strictly in “mundane time”, but here is the basic structure

• Land Acknowledgement

• Ancestor Invocation

• Blessing

• Introductions

• Break

• Energy Build through breath & self-touch

• Focused Energy Beam

• Vision Journey

• Close

The camera will be on for first 4 parts of the ritual, and will then be shut off after Introductions,

When Do The RItuals Happen?

Every month on the night of the New Moon 6:30pm - 8:30pm PST:
2021 New Moon Rituals

Thursday February 11
Saturday, March 13
Sunday, April 11
Tuesday, May 11
Thursday, June 10
Friday, July 9
Sunday, August 8
Monday, September 6
Wednesday, October 6
Thursday, November 4
Saturday, December 4

The Ache Di* for the ritual is $15.51 for folx who did not attend the prior month’s ritual.

You do not have to have any experience with rituals or sex magic. You do have to believe that magic exists, and that you have the power to shape the world to your liking.

MoonKin have the option to join an ongoing MoonWork group where we keep in touch in between rituals. MoonKin also have optional access to a multi-racial Full Moon ritual once a quarter.

*The easiest translation for Ache Di would be “registration fee”. It’s also a completely inaccurate one.

Since this will be a small group ritual (limited to 15), and we’ll be in an intimate circle (all online, but still intimate), I’d like to have a chat with you to make sure this group is a good fit. If it is, you’ll join The MoonKin Mates.

There are already twice as many MoonKin (folx who attended at least one of last year’s ritual) as there are spaces in the ritual. Registration to each month’s ritual is open first to my QTIBIPOC Patreons and MoonKin who attended the previous ritual. After that registration is also open to all Moonkin. Then registration is open to Moonkin Mates. Once you’ve attended a ritual you become Moonkin.

My Experience

I did my very first solo sex magic ritual in 1997 or 1998 & it was wildly successful.

My background in magick goes back to my early teen years of calling myself a witch and being one of the only 2 girls in my playgroup who could get the Ouija Board pointer to move. I got into Dianic Witchcraft when I came out as a dyke in 1988, but that soon felt too White for me. It was around that time that I got my hands on a copy of Jambalaya by Luisah Teish & it spoke to me on a very foundational level. For many years after I would do a modified version of the house=cleaning ritual outlined in the book (I still do).

A couple of decades later I found myself through a series of “coincidences” in the Ifa Temple headed by Luisah Teish, and named as a child of Yemaya. I’m also really clear that my work mostly fall’s into Oshun’s realm & I call on her at the beginning of my sessions & classes.

In 2016 I led New Moon Money Pouring rituals in my house for several months. In 2018, I led new moon & full moon rituals on Alameda beach. In 2019 & 2020 I had a group of friends that I did New Moon Money Pouring Rituals with online.

My goal is to have a life where I spend the New Moon & Full Moon in ritual space. I also seek to create a community of qtipoc who want to dive deep into the magical power of pleasure to design the lives we desire & deserve.